inspired from the movie "the ugly truth".
WARNING: there are terms and phrases that are not suitable for minors.
minors are not allowed to read this article.
Abby Richter (Katherine Heigl) is a romantically challenged morning show producer whose search for Mr. Perfect has left her hopelessly single. She's in for a rude awakening when her bosses team her with Mike Chadway (Gerard Butler), a hardcore TV personality who promises to spill the ugly truth on what makes men and women tick.
i was impressed with the way the movie was written and if i were to rate it, i would rate it a five out of five. the love story is not the usual and it depicts reality and if you wanna know what that is, well, read on.
i was guilty of playing the part of Abby in this movie. i, too has a checklist. oh common i am not the only one who has a dream guy and on top of that my friends is the desire to be loved by that person. yeah, taking into consideration my crazy experience, i would be playing Mike Chadway if and only if i look at one gender in a general perspective. in this movie, Mike Chadway gave us girls five things to take into consideration if we want to get that guy hooked unto us.
1. never criticize. men are incapable of growing, changing and progress.
2. laugh at whatever he says. even when it is not really funny.
3. change your looks. that includes the way you dress. "you can be very attractive but totally inaccessible".
4. never talk about your problem. because the truth is, he does not care.
5. make your hair longer. he wants to grab unto something other than your ass. a ponytail implies that you are either operating a heavy machinery or you are emptying a leather box ...
if you notice, it is all physical. we give men the pleasure and the air to keep their heads bigger and bloated.
the checklist is:
*at least 5'5''
*a graduate of a baccalaureate degree
*nice smile, good set of teeth
*understanding
*patient
*romantic
*and it could go on and on and on
we have checklists, we have dream boyfriends, ideal husbands, etc... yet, when we met the person that can make our hearts beats faster and slower at the same time, we tend to forget the qualifications and we tend to disregard this man's resume. why? because the list will be converted into just one thing WE WANT TO BE LOVED which includes we want to be special. have you ever experienced getting hurt and being betrayed by the one you intimately loved? yes i do, nothing to be shy of, i am not a minor anyway. so, even after this person betrayed me, i moved on and i still know how to trust, my ability to love did not go away, i was not impaired at all. i still say, hey i have been betrayed and cheated yet i do not think that all men are like that. it is the person's individuality and i know that you men out there will agree that you are not at all the same with each other. it depends on how you perceive things and live your life. one thing to note ladies is that most men loves to leave you hanging. most men has this "be mean to girls and the more they will crave more of you", it is one hunting technique that most of these men find amusing. because we girls, loves details and we analyze almost all things. so in return, they give us small hints and tiny clues not enough to make the picture clear.
I ONCE almost FELL IN LOVE WITH A JERK!
so poor of me, i once fell into the trap of a jerk. because i allowed myself to feel something for him. he was a boy who pretends to be a man or the other way around. i did not even realize that i can have a very fast wake up call and recovery out of the sickness of liking this person. he is a BIG joke. what is more disgusting of a man trying to suck the very blood of you and gives you promises and words that are out of this world...only to find out that he never intends to be attached, to be associated and to be an "item" with you?! acting as if, you still need to ask his parents so you can take him out? yeah right, and so i tried understanding him, adjusting to him and liking things about him that i don't even like in the first place. i tried to be a totally different person, i minimized my control freak, psychotic, weird, OC attitude just like what Abby did but to no avail, i'm just one of those girls who cannot hide the real feelings that i have inside. my being straightforward and honest did not do much help. i do not even know until this very moment upon typing this blog what the hell was wrong with this guy. i am but assumptions and hypothesis. well, i used to lack sleep or get really depressed because of what he did; that again, i don't even know. things to take note loser...you don't deserve me, you don't deserve a friend like me, you are a loser, a sucker and most of all you are a JERK!!! if you have issues with yourself, why would you generalize and go on a shooting spree. you have been hurt, cheated and betrayed but you cannot take it on all the girls who are good to you, what kind of thinking do you have. you dont belong on this earth, perhaps you should go to outerspace and be with the meteorites and dust because you dont deserve to be happy. i pity you!
girls, men would do everything to do best of their ability to hook you up. in order to attain that, they do small things like spark up a conversation, pretend to be your friend, get your number etc... NOW if you are clever and cunning and you are the kind of girl who refuses to get inside their pockets, then congratulations you are just one of those most men does not like. they love girls who would suck their c**k.
on the other side, these men has their own weaknesses. intimidation ladies, intimidation!
men gets intimidated if they know that you pretty much does not need them. simple carpentry, tire change, bottle opening, shopping bag lifting, etc.
men get intimidated if they know you earn bigger than his paycheck.
men gets intimidated if they know that you can pay for your own meal and can also pay for his.
men gets intimidated if you know how to drive and you don't need them to survive.
reality check boys, women are the majority of the workforce nowadays and we earn a good number plus we have job security.
their brains lacks blood and oxygen because instead of going up, those essential element goes down, below to their c**k!
things to be careful about:
men will make you suffer just so you will crave for them.
they will not call because they want you to call them.
he will blow you off so that you will redeem yourself to his advantage.
men are into lust, seduction and manipulation.
they keep the conversation under a minute, so that you will want to talk to them.
they pretty much love girls that they can figure out in a few seconds.
when you think that you found that guy, do not trust him right away, you have to screen him and show him the worse that you could be. be true, be you. because if that guy really likes you and loves you, he will call you, treat you right, accept you for who you are and what you can be. he always starts with friendship and not sex. if a guy asks to visit you in your place, ask him why? if the only reason is sex then wake up girl that is all he wants and he will not love you after that. don't go low and cheap just to get him, you may feed a dog a bone but feeding a guy with a muffin won't guarantee love after he has ejaculated.
you can follow the steps in getting that guy you always want and you feel you "love" but he will be seeing the different you and not the real "you", a person that you just made up. the truth is ugly but it is liberating. so, i realized too long ago that he is not worth it, not worthy of my time and effort and loyalty and devotion. i am sorry man but i am not the kind of girl you thought i was, there are a lot more than meets the eyes. our mistake is that we tend to be impatient and are creative in planning those details. do not make it complicated. we are Filipinos and we still have the delicadeza, self-worth still exists. to all those guys out there who belongs to the Suckers World and the Jerk Planet, you may bang all the girls you pick up all your life but mind you, when you reach the age 45, you will be just in your bedroom's corner, miserable. you may still have a girl but its not you they want, its your money honey. so my advice is, save dude so that when that time comes you still have something to give aside from your luggage. and to all you girls, what is the rush, you may have temporary color blindness like me but you are still special and you will always be. do not settle with a man who does not value your worth and does not treat you right, it is either you will be his psychiatrist or you will be the patient in the long run.
there will be a sequence on this and i invite you to share your views. this is my blog and this is my idea, you don't have to agree with everything.
the ugly truth trailer
the ugly truth trailer
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