Crush and Crash! *raw*

It is weekend again, it’s moi day off and I am here in front of BE (my laptop’s name) gathering and organizing my thoughts while practicing my typing skills and listening to Avril. It’s a holiday tomorrow and I don’t have a class. Crazy as it may seem but I am writing this article in recognition of the movie He's Just Not That into you.

He's Just Not That into you VS. He is just not into you. Telling someone that he's just not that into you is a bit subtle and polite but telling them he is just not into you is the hard truth and I prefer the second one. It is so straight that it does not give an assurance that one day that man may like you. It is similar to saying he does not just like you and there is no way he will like you in the future.

Men and women may deal with pain and loss differently but falling in love is just the same.

According to Life123: Falling in love can literally make you go weak at the knees. So I have gathered the list.

Signs and symptoms of falling in love:

· Your heartbeat increases as the object of your affection passes by.

· The palms of your hands may sweat as your excitement increases.

· You may become odd as you are tongue tied by strong emotion and may say something that you don’t actually mean.

· You may be at a loss about what to say as you gaze into their eyes longingly.

· Your mind will be full of constant thoughts about the person that you are falling for.

· You may play out fantasies in your imagination about being with them and them loving you in return.

· You may have trouble carrying out everyday tasks accurately as you are unable to shift your consciousness away from them onto the task at hand.

· Thinking about them becomes a joy in itself, increasing the strong feelings you have toward them.

· Daydreaming about the one you love could become one of your favourite hobbies and can take up much of your time and mental energy.

· You may find yourself dreaming about them during the night, having spent a long time intensely thinking about them before shutting your eyes to sleep.

· You may find that you feel the need to talk incessantly about love.

· While falling in love, everything that goes on around you will begin to relate to the person that you are falling for.

· You frequently talk about the person and you want to talk about the person as much as possible.

· Please add to this list as you give comments.

Woohoo! This topic gives me goose bumps not because I’m feeling it but because the air is so cold. LOL.

You want to see the person as often as you can, you check all of your e-mail accounts, your blog, your Facebook and other social networking sites, your IM’s and your cell phone a hundred times. Not just because you want to know if there is a message but because you are expecting and anticipating a message.

You may be feeling those that are described in the list but it is not a guarantee that the other person felt the same way too. You may be feeling that you are already floating but you just do not know that the object of your affection did not feel a thing or two. I know that it is sad but that is how it is gonna be, it is either they love you or they love you not.

Taking into account all of your emotional investments, please evaluate if that guy is worth it.

If he is not into you:

· He does not call

· He does not check your page

· He does not ask

· He does not show interest with what you say

· He does not give genuine acknowledgment of your presence

· He does not give a damn about you

· He does not want to be with you

· Please add to this list as you give comments.

If a guy is into you, he knows where to find you and he will make it happen.

Admit it girl, the guy that you have drained your energy with walking to and fro, checking things and all, does not even think about you! He does not like you, he does not love you.

If this is the case then run and keep your distance. He is not worth it.

The thing that guys do not know is that, when girls are still in the heat of the moment, at the brink of all those signs and symptoms above, and at the floating stage, they should grab the chance. Once they miss the bus, they can never have that same bus ride again. When the feeling is gone and that was the time the guy takes action, don’t expect a special treatment because when a girl is over you, she is over you and the feeling that she once felt was overshadowed with how you blow her off. Second, third chances seldom happens. Not all people are love-intelligent, not even all are love-literate and some are not even aware. I may be dumb in a sense that I am Philophobic and Gamophobic and the entire phobia in the world but hey, education never ends and it is a matter of educating yourself. If that is a fact that I’m incapable to erase or remove then I prefer to be love-educated.

Yanni’s rule: I would rather be selfish than to love someone who does not love me or care for someone who does not care for me. My traffic is two-way with one lane.

Be cautious and contain the damage in case of crash.

‘til next movie? ‘Til next article. Don’t hesitate to comment, give suggestions and leave something to make our list longer.

Happy weekend tout le monde!