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something realistic, crazy, straightforward and a whole bunch of emotional stirring will awaken thoughts and criticisms. watch out! it is still coming soon

think about it

Life is wonderful and it is so beautiful. You will be happy when your life has its meaning, reason and purpose. It is neither a routine nor an itinerary that you accomplish each day. Everyone can be happy as long they want to. But I do not really want to be happy...

I want to be glad, joyful and blissful. Do not ever look at yourself according to the standard of man. They are all deceiving.
Proverbs 31:30 “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised".
We are but a traveler in this world, all we see is never permanent. This is not our home to dwell. This is but a battleground or a passageway. It is not on how strong you are but on how strong your faith is. Faith, hope and love but the greatest of this is LOVE. if you are unloved, you should know that when everyone turns their back on you, God makes you complete, He never leaves and He is always there to love you. The love of man is full of requirements but the love of God is pure and true. You don’t have to look very far, God knows what you want and what you need. Have faith, have hope and have love. God will not give up on you even when everybody already did. 

i was looking for good finds on the net a few days ago. i was actually entering the question "why is he not talking to me". well, i was able to find an article about it and it was not bad. the writer gave 4 reasons why a man won't talk to a woman and oh yeah, first reason hit me. hahaha.

anyway, what intrested me the most is the article you are about to read below.

11 Reasons He Dumped You

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• by Rich Santos, Marie Claire, on Wed Sep 23, 2009 4:06pm PDT

I was flipping through a Women's Health recently (I admit it), and I noticed an interesting poll. Women cited the following as the most common breakup reasons:

• He changed
• We weren't compatible
• He cheated on me

When I was little, it drove me crazy when my parents supported "no" with "because I said so." I always wanted a reason. I'm not sure if knowing why always helps, but perhaps if you know common reasons guys break up with girls, you'll at least be able to see it coming. So, here are mine:

I Got Bored: I've read many different hypotheses on attention span, but my favorite is (Wikipedia):

"Continuous attention span, or the amount of time a human can focus on an object without any lapse at all, is very brief and may be as short as 8 seconds. After this amount of time, it is likely that an individual's eyes will shift focus, or that a stray thought will briefly enter consciousness."

My attention span (unless it's a football game or a song) may be worse. I know a relationship is not supposed to be exciting all the time, so getting through those flatline moments between the sparks is critical. If I start having more fun with other activities, the relationship is doomed.

One of Us Was Too Serious: This could be as simple as she wanted to see me three times a week, and I only wanted to see her once a week. If she's flirting with other guys, flighty, or not as into it as I am, then I'm too serious for her.

Burnout: I'm a big believer in pacing and rhythm in dating. A relationship can suffer burnout if certain milestones occur too fast: Being exclusive, sex, meeting parents. When that happens, I get that feeling the colonists must have gotten after they won the Revolutionary War: "Ok, we did it...so now what?"

I Was Tempted To Cheat: I do my best not to cheat, so when I have recurring urges to cheat on my girlfriend, I figure it's time to break up with her. I don't need to go through with cheating; the constant urge is enough for me to end things.

All My Friends Broke Up With Their Girlfriends: This is by far the most immature reason on this list. While my girlfriend and I are curled up on the couch watching "The Devil Wears Prada," my newly single guy friends are out shredding the karaoke waves with Journey's "Don't Stop Believin" and tearing up the town. That conflict gives me wanderlust. It's much easier when we are all in for a quiet Saturday night with the significant others.

Divergent Lives: If someone moves to another town, or work is taking over, or other life changes are driving you apart, sometimes it's best to end it.

Feeling Selfish: Dating is selfless because you're giving your time and yourself up to a relationship. "Me time" is necessary at some point to work on career/living situation, travel, or whatever. When I'm in a "selfish period," it's tough to participate in a relationship.

I "Misread" My Feelings: This is the most unfair of all the reasons. Both genders make this mistake—you get into a relationship and everything seems so great. Then, a few weeks later, you realize you got wrapped up in something for the wrong reason, dated for the sake of dating, or whatever, and you need to get out.

My Friends Or Family Didn't Like Her: I pay close attention to friend/family opinions because they know me best, and they've earned the right to have their say. Also, friends and family may be able to see things inside the relationship that I'm too blinded to see.

I Took Her For Granted: Great relationships should be easy, but there has to be some tension too—especially in the beginning. If it's too easy, there's a lack of challenge. If I feel like I could have her heart any time any place, sometimes I'll let her go. This almost always ends up coming back to haunt me later, though. I never learn.

She Was Too Negative: All too often, I end up with the brooding, depressed, uptight type who is constantly complaining. I don't expect someone to be happy all the time, but if she makes me unhappy every time I see her, why stay with her?

What reasons have guys used to break up with you, and which make you most angry? What reasons have caused you to break up with guys? Which reasons do you think are the most common cause of breakups- do they differ for guys and women?

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good bye 25

i thank God for giving me another year. there is a purpose why i am still alive up to this very moment. Thank you Lord for loving me, i have never felt this kind of love and i can only find them in You. through my fears and failures, my imperfections and pain, my frustrations and hopes, You were there when no one else stood to fight for me. You were there to rescue me when i was judged by these people and You were always there. it is always You and me together. So this 26th year, i re-dedicate my life to you. Be it unto me that I will no longer look for love, make me content; i will no longer crave for care, fill me. i will wait patiently for the person that you designed for me. i have been hurt and confused and wasted a lot of time. may these events occur no more. I am sorry for the stupid things i have done; i am sorry that instead i run to you when i got depressed, i found myself with the counsel of people; i am sorry that i try to impress some people and did not think if you are pleased with me; i am sorry for giving my love away without a righteous cause. i am imperfect and will never be perfect. forgive me. help me, mold me and change me. stay with me and never let me go my Father. heal my broken heart. embrace me with your grace. it is only YOU that i need. until the day that you will take me, i am still officially Under Construction. let this be my prayer...

sun cellular unlimited calls?

Telecommunication Industry's competition and product offerings are really marketed well for both business and personal use. For 450.00 pesos, you can have unlimited sun-sun calls and text messaging for one month and that is prepaid. To include some users like myself who does not want to get tied with contracts, prefers prepaid. A friend told me you can save more if you go postpaid and will have much more benefits. I have been enjoying this service for years to get in touch with my family, friends; take care of business, clients and work.

I have however received annoying phone calls and believe me, you won't like it. People will force you to speak a language so that they will understand you, they will insist that you should talk to them, they will bombard you with text messages that will clog up your inbox...because they are unli! different hours of day and night, they annoy you. When you will ask them who they're looking for, they will say that they just pressed those lucky numbers and hola...you are the unfortunate person that these pranksters will devour. Where is the "using technology wisely" now, where's the courtesy and phone etiquette? They ask like a police investigator, talk as if you are friends and they bother you the most when you just want to be left alone. It is just so funny that there are these guys that thinks that you would simply be delighted to give in to what they want, you just don't pick textmates as if they are leaves in the trees. they are not even sure if you are that type. C'mon, for those who are "trying to be" a totally different person, pretending you don't know that it's my number and wants to gather some information hoping that I will tell you things...have the guts to approach me. What is the matter if you just be yourself, you can definitely say hey, i am interested to know you, i would like to know you more.


Still there are a lot of people who uses this technology and even when we are only 11 digits away, people still deserves privacy.