What are women looking for in a relationship? This is the question that I chose for my article submission to Facebook's Beta tester invitation. I am thinking to share this with you all. Enjoy the juicy, raw and unedited version of this article. Another example of being an impulsive writer. My term which means a person who writes to express what is on her mind and it need to get out, otherwise, there will be headache.
Women as we know looks complicated as it may seem, so complicated that men would not understand if they try to understand women. But you will never know unless you try to know women the way they are. Women sound so demanding that majority of them has criteria and a long list of do’s and don’ts. A. We are going to know first what women want in a man. Some women prefer good looking man while others are very particular with the smile. Some women go for the money, for the fame or for the name. Beauty is totally deceiving and there are a lot of not-as-good looking guys out there who probably possessed one or two or all of them. These distinct complications of what women want in a man is ever changing and believe me, women just changes her mind in a minute or two. If I were to represent a small population of myself, meaning girls who have similar and have the same thinking as I have. Perhaps, I would say that I also have a list of my own. I mean who does not want to walk around the mall with the good looking man, taller than you, gorgeous smile, funny and smart? But the thing is, A. what women want in a man, is actually a second priority. Moving on with B., What are women looking for in a relationship definitely depends on what kind of women do the searching. It is not a concrete and a hard rule that we impose that this is it because preferences vary from one ideal to the other. If we equate women to the writer who is me, then we can say that women is looking for a relationship that gives an avenue for growth, a relationship that gives comfort and warmth, serious and was built in love. The kind of relationship that is goes beyond friendship, companionship and criticisms. Who does not want to be loved? There is an inner cry and craving inside every cold individual that longs for someone to hold on to. Someone who respects the way you want your coffee to taste, someone who criticizes the way you cook but finished all the meal that you have prepared. That no matter how hard the argument, that man will still go home with you and at the end of the day, it is still your arms surrounding him so that he will feel warm.
There are also women who like a playful relationship, there are some who loves the pain and some who imprisoned themselves inside their virtual world of pessimistic and sadistic thoughts that no one will ever love them. There are two things that you will come across when you try to know that women. It is only either, the more you know her, the more you won’t like or love her and or the more you know her, the more you’ll like or love her.
It could probably be compared with exploration, adventure and discovery. We have the fear of the unknown where hesitation blooms and flowers to a wonderful rejection. It is new territory for us and we tend to easily lose hope. If that relationship is just across the street then I will do everything I can to conquer the turn of events.
Relationships are not perfect in fact; it involves a lot of hard work and sweat.
What this woman is looking for in a relationship? Is a relationship that has the foundation of love, the walls of acceptance, the cornerstone of loyalty and dedication, and the roof of protection.
I will cross the world even when I have a small percentage of probability that the other half of me is just out there also waiting for me.
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